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I'm a little confused: does my father love me? My father is going to work. Doesn't he love me?" The guide to healing farewells with love
you know that familiar goodbye at the doorstep in the morning rush. In your child's tears, "please don't go!" The words "not only your father, who left the house, but also your mother, who witnessed that moment, will break your heart." "if my father loved me, he would not leave me and go away." As a parent, you can very well feel that quiet anxiety passing through your child's mind: "i'm a little confused: does my father love me?" This is a book that explains those challenging goodbye moments and helps your child understand their separation anxiety through the lens of secure attachment. "short summary of the book
this story, bearing the signature of expert psychologist mehmet teber, says ""i am no longer loved."" when his father went to dig tunnels (to work)." It tells the inner world of a little mole who thinks. With the tender guidance of his mother, the mole discovers that the bad ideas in his cloud of thoughts are not a lack of love for his father's departure, but a responsibility, and the joy of reunion in the evening. Benefits for children
separation anxiety management: your child understands that when a parent leaves for work, it's not a "rejection," but a temporary separation, with a concrete example. Cognitive restructuring: by using the technique of "identifying negative thoughts and replacing them with supportive thoughts", you learn to interpret negative events in a healthy way. Object permanence and security: even without their parent present, they experience peace knowing their love continues and that they will surely return in the evening. Healing through memories: discover how recalling cherished moments from the past can help alleviate current sorrow. Benefits for parents
this book turns the "going to work" crises at your home into a development opportunity:
reduces parental anxiety: the "will my child be left behind?" anxiety created by being a working parent. Helps eliminate her anxiety with a healthy language of communication. Offers a common solution language: when your child is upset during moments of separation from a parent, say to them, "let's go and look at the thinking cloud." Allows you to start a pedagogical game by saying Who is it suitable for? "children aged 4-6 who show intense reactions when separated from their parents or experience separation anxiety... ""does my father not love me?"" Parents who want to answer questions such as these with love and affection... Adults looking for a book that acts as a "homework assignment" to simplify their farewell processes... We know that your top priority is for your child to feel safe and loved in all circumstances. "i'm a little confused: does my father love me? It's a heartwarming story that eases the anxiety of separation moments and explains that love is an invisible bond. It is a wonderful bedside guide to unravel the chaos in your child's mind and make that big hug when evening knocks even more meaningful.
frequently asked questions
1. Should my child's father read the book to him? This story can be read by any adult who wants to accompany the child's emotional world. However, since the core separation anxiety addressed in the book is shaped through the father figure, it is very valuable for fathers to personally engage in this process. The direct and affectionate answering of the child's questions in his mind by his father directly strengthens the ground of trust between them.
2. Is the story sadness, anxiety oriented? The story addresses separation anxiety, but it focuses on understanding and resolving emotions rather than suppressing them. "that feeling you have is very normal and you are safe." Gives his message. The process leaves a feeling of relaxation, understanding, and trust in the child, not sadness or anxiety, as it is punctuated by a warm reunion moment and play.
