Product description
I'm a little confused: does my mother love me? My mother was angry with me. Or does he not love me? While you're busy with something around the house, you suddenly hear a noise
your child has climbed into a dangerous place or is about to knock over a vase. With fear at that moment, driven solely by the instinct to protect her, she shouted, "get out of there quickly!" You can shout. Then there is that silence. You feel bad when you see that worried look in your child's eyes. "i'm a little confused: does my mother love me? ...a guide who steps in precisely when you need it most, bridging the gap between your child's heart and your boundless love. "summary of the book
this story, written by expert clinical psychologist mehmet teber, is about a small lamb climbing a high rock, and its mother's panicked warning, ""i am no longer loved." He explains how to interpret it. The book uses the metaphors of the “cloud of thoughts” and the “worry balloon” to teach in a tangible way how children can transform their negative thoughts into positive ones. Benefits for children
unconditional acceptance: it internalizes the idea that children should not doubt their parents' love, even when their behavior is limited or they receive a negative reaction. Emotion regulation: learns to recognize negative emotions and thoughts, and to engage in self-soothing, supportive inner dialogue. Understanding boundaries: they realize that the rules and warnings set by their parents are not punishments, but rather a display of affection to keep them safe. Mindfulness: they learn to cope with negative emotions by recognizing that thoughts and feelings come and go like clouds in the sky. Benefits for parents
correct expression: when you react harshly in a difficult moment, you realize how to explain yourself to your child afterwards. "i acted that way because i wanted to protect you." Helps you set up statements like these correctly. Shared language: a common language is formed within your family where you can talk about feelings. Thus, you can have a clearer and more understandable communication with your child. Safe guidance: the approaches in the book guide you on how to approach your child's emotions. Who is it suitable for? "children aged 4-6… ""does my mother love me?""." Little ones who are starting to ask the question...
parents who want to explain the balance between discipline and love to their child...
dear parent, sometimes our voice gets louder, sometimes our reactions change due to fatigue, but the endless love in our hearts never changes. "does my mother love me? ", is an ambassador who translates your heart to your child. When you finish this book, your child will hug you tightly and say, "mom loves me because she wants what's best for me." He will fall asleep peacefully saying. Could there be a nicer closure than this?
frequently asked questions
1. Can my child understand the concept of a "thought cloud"? Yes, mehmet teber has blended this concept with concrete and visual explanations that children between the ages of 4-6 can understand. Children easily grasp this abstract situation through visuals. Is this book only for kids who have trouble understanding rules and limits?
no, this book is an inclusive emotional development book. It is suitable to be in every child's library to increase the child's emotional resilience, strengthen the trust bond with the parent, and support the ability to look at events from different perspectives.