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I'm a little confused: do my friends love me? "they didn't include me in the game" – a guide to healing big hurt in little hearts
you're at the park... your child excitedly walks over to a group, "can i play too?" Asks. The oncoming "no!" With the answer, how those tiny shoulders drooped, how those eyes, with their “do they not love me?” Have you seen the question? We know how your heart aches as a mother at that moment. You want to protect it, intervene immediately.
"do my friends like me? ", is a caring friend who takes your child's hand in those quiet moments of hurt, explaining in the most delicate way that rejection is not ""not being loved""." "short summary of the book
this valuable story from the pen of expert psychologist mehmet teber
tells the story of little turtle, who was not included in the game because the teams were full." The thought in the turtle's mind is "they don't like me." The cloud disperses with the wise touches of her mother. The book demonstrates how to transform negative thoughts into positive ones while teaching children the difference between game rules and friendship love.
benefits for children ● Social skills and resilience: they learn that not being included in a group isn't the end of the world, and that sometimes it's just about the rules.
● Emotional awareness: through the metaphor of a "thought cloud," it learns to recognize and manage negative thoughts that arise in its mind.
● Self-confidence development: instead of blaming themselves when rejected, they gain the ability to evaluate the situation more calmly and realistically.
● Empathy and communication: they realize that their friends may have different opinions and preferences, and that it's normal for them to sometimes say "no." Benefits for parents
with this book, you will help your child understand social conflicts.
● Crisis moments: instead of trying to silence your child when they cry, you can support them to calm down by talking about the emotions mentioned in the book. "that's how this character felt." You can encourage them to express their feelings by saying
● Bonding: when you read together, you can also share your own feelings and give your child an opportunity to know you better. These shares naturally strengthen the sense of trust between you.
● Daily life: the situations in the book help you understand the events your child experiences at school or in the park together. So you can ask the right questions and more easily notice his emotions. Who is it suitable for?
● For little ones aged 4-6, just embarking on the exciting journey of making friends in preschool... ● Children who are sensitive in friendships or who personally perceive the answer as "no"... ● Conscious and loving parents who want to support their child's emotional intelligence (eq)...
dear parent, we know that you always want your child to be accepted. But the best gift you can give her is to teach her not to doubt her own worth, even when she's rejected. "do my friends love me? ", can be a caring voice that reminds your child of their own worth and makes them feel loved. Read this story tonight and let's banish those "clouds of bad thoughts" together.
frequently asked questions
1. Will my child be more upset by reading this book? These kinds of stories are not written to increase children's emotions, but to help them understand them. When your child sees the emotion the character is experiencing, they might say, "that's not something that happens to me." May think. This can help them express their feelings and relax.
2. Isn't the book's page count too low? The attention span of children in the preschool period is limited. Therefore, the content is prepared to be short but effective. It's not the number of pages that matters, but whether the child can understand the story and talk about it. The book is a simple and understandable work with mehmet teber's explanation.
