Doğan Kitap Kral Kaybederse - Madalyonun İçi - Kırmızı Pelerin - Görünmeyen Kadınlar Gülseren Budayıcıoğlu

A girl in a red cloak enters through the open door. it looks like she was ripped out of a movie or a fairy tale. while the morning call to prayer is being recited, before the day has fully risen, and the surroundings have not yet fully illuminated, one feels a chill, a similar feeling washes over me. like a ghost...__t1__

"i wonder what this girl would think if someone opened the door right now and saw her standing in the middle of the room, with her eyes closed, her cloak flapping, just turning around, and i was watching her with pleasure. what would she say, ""one is crazy, the other is a crazy doctor."" while watching her in a state of awe, i say to myself, ""i wonder what pains she has experienced, what dead ends she has fallen into that make her turn like this in a psychiatrist's room?"" i say to myself. why does a person wear such a cloak when going to a psychiatric clinic, why does he wear a hat with tulle on the front? there must be a meaning to these. and soon, the pains he has experienced are falling out of his mouth like a thin moan. this girl has experienced the greatest of pain, fear, love, love, hope, and hopelessness.__t2__"

This is the story of a childhood trauma, the years spent in its dark shadow, the loneliness, the feeling of being utterly alone, the brand new doors opening when you thought everything was over, in short, a touching life full of adventure, its good and bad; it's actually a very innocent love story.

Somewhere in this book, you're bound to encounter yourself and those who have left their mark on you. i hope you come to know them well and can approach them – and yourself – with a little more understanding.

Gülseren budayikoglu, november 3, 2022, istanbul__t5__

“i can't be this invisible, can i?”__t8__

"it's been many years since the days when women lived without making their presence known, watching the street behind the bars. now women are on the street, at work, everywhere... but there is still something that makes them invisible: a father who doesn't say ""i'm here""; a mother whose heart is frozen; lovers who always leave their love for other times; the world that says ""you should live according to us""; society that always indoctrinates women to be beautiful, well-groomed, perfect... women who have forgotten to look at themselves, inside themselves, from crying out ""see me"", dragging their spirits and bodies from place to place with unhappiness, dedicated to pleasing others..."

Gülseren budayakulu, with shocking stories, tells the stories of invisible women; to make women visible with their pain, their weaknesses, and most importantly, their strength that overcomes everything…__t10__

Sometimes i feel like a stage artist. just as an artist prepares for the stage in front of the audience, i also prepare with the same meticulousness and appear in front of my patients. that's why i don't work on certain days of the week. if i work at this intensity every day, my performance will decrease and i will have no time to devote to myself. my interest in patients decreases. from the moment i sit at that desk, i am disconnected from my own world and my problems. i don't even have the right to be sick anymore. i can't leave that room i enter at eleven in the morning until late in the evening. people come in and out. i feel like i'm watching a movie that is exciting, interesting, and often sad. .__t11__

"three sisters living in a garbage apartment... i wonder if the garbage they collect is a reflection of what accumulates in their subconscious? jale and kemal, who establish relationships with each other through ""violence"", will they be able to share their true feelings one day? doctor yiğit, who thinks he is the prophet isa, will he be able to come out of the hotel room he was locked in and return to life? will pembe continue to punish herself with the beatings she receives from her husband because of the guilt she feels for the beautiful excitement she has felt for the first time in her life? will the strange, abandoned girl be able to cope with the anger in her mind? no matter what the outside of the medallion shows, there is the most real, most naked form of a person inside the medallion. in this book of gülseren budayıcıoğlu, which has now become a classic, he shows us the secrets hidden in everyday life. __t12__"

In this cult work, which has reached hundreds of thousands of readers, gülseren budayakulu describes the passionate suffering of women who are lost in the pomp of kings.

If the king loses, i wonder if the women win?__t16__

Welcome local “yalom”,__t17__

This book is a literary masterpiece penned by an ankara-based psychiatrist with extensive experience and unique approaches in the field of dynamic psychotherapies. a book like this could only have been written by gulseren budayicioglu, among the thousands of mental health professionals in turkey. i have always wondered about the secret of this success.

Don't let your hands suffer, dear colleague.__t19__

May love be with you for giving turkish such a full, warm, natural, meaningful literary work...__t20__

Prof. dr. cengiz güleç__t21__